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Politically
incorrect
My son was put through the ringer, and he was only in the
first grade. The psychologist at his elementary school decided to have him put
in the category of ADHD without letting us know. We found out from his teacher
who said she sympathized with us and felt sorry that he was ADHD. We were
shocked! We started asking our son questions about his day and what he did in
school, his response was, oh, I sit in the ISS room and draw or play with
puzzles. He wasn't even learning anything. Out of his whole first grade
experience, he spent 7 months in ISS without us being notified. We immediately
withdrew him. He is now in the 5th grade and doing great. Each year we get a
letter in the mail from his former elementary school saying which teacher he
will have in the coming year. They still have him listed as a student (even
though we've contacted the school board) so they can use him in the head count
to attain more money.
—Guest Guest fed up
Not
happy with the school system in our
There are a multitude of reasons I am working on beginning
my son 9 yrs of age on homeschooling. Main one is one school allowed him to be
bullied so bad and for so long, that my son came home from school with a busted
lip; after being jumped by 4 other kids on the bus and the principal and school
board official felt suspending these 4 boys off the bus for 8 days was suffice
for them torturing my son for 6 months prior, so I am beginning to homeschool
him for fear that the school system just won't protect him like I would. He is
excited, but I've told him - mom is not going to be a pushover teacher. ;-)
—Guest teresa
No
choice but to homeschool
My son has a very rare epilepsy. I have been teaching him
all his life. He spent two years in the hands of public preschool as the next
level from Child Watch. He was able to receive services for developmental
delays which resulted from seizures from earlier years. I have never been
satisfied with the public school system and prefer private Catholic school. I
insisted on homework from therapist in order to reinforce at home only to get
inconsistencies. I tried to communicate solutions to problems but got no action
or support. So I decided to go to a private preschool. He was denied at the
last minute because he needs special attention and they don't have enough staff
to accommodate. Then onto another pilot academy where there were 3 boys in the
preschool and a teacher that does the minimum effort. The school tells me that
we must provide an aide for our son which will cost 15K. Yeah right, SAID
GOODBYE. Glad I already had plan B in action all along. Homeschooling now!
—Guest UNO academy
Amazed
at what my daughters didn't know!
I was amazed that my 7th grader could not tell time! Not
because she has learning disabilities, but because everything is digital and no
emphasis is put on generic learning ie, weights and measures, time and space
etc. We were shelling out nearly $1,000 a month to a catholic school and
neither girl knew the capitol of our state! After speaking with the teachers, I
realized, they themselves were very ignorant and too busy caught up in the
politics of what they would be losing under our state's current administration
(NJ) that they had no time for teaching. In defense of all the great NJ
teachers -- thanks for doing your best under such dire circumstances. They are
a dying breed and their hands are surely tied. We started homeschooling our
children in the interest of not adding to more functionally illiterate adults
to this society. No child left behind doesn't mean what one thinks it does,
every child in my daughter's classes received the same grades C+. Go figure.
Peace.
—Guest Genus
Seraphimae
I would not dream of enlisting my child (to be birthed in
the coming season of Aquarius) in a school until she hath come of age and
graduated from all mundane curriculum, under my guidance, as well as all
holistic/artistic mastery under my careful guide. The reason is this...in
public schools nowadays the values placed on spiritual, moral an ethical ideas
are suited for children with ordinary "lust driven" behaviors. . .it
is rare that extremely gifted children in arts/music/spirituality are made
comfortable and safe in conventional teaching modalities. I am the Christian
artist who must raise my offspring with God's blessing rather than with the
government's social approval. This guarantees that her contribution to society
will become a valid one & not ever a parasitic one. In other words, as long
as we rely upon society to educate our children, we are only creating products
of society. . . quite possibly competitive & materialistic even in
philanthropic endeavors.
—Guest Isys Satkha
WWJD
After being a mom for the last 20 years, one day I realized
life goes by too fast. Kids grow up too fast. And time lost is never retrievable.
So with our oldest son in the Navy, and teenager into Christian private hs -
that left three younger boys. One son is in remission from brain cancer. Two
years ago I pulled the younger ones out because I was sick of the anti God/anti
Bible, and liberal agenda. It has been much trial and error I will admit, and
some days I feel they need to go back, but at end of those days I realize I'm
not perfect, my boys are not perfect, but God wants us to do our best. And
tomorrow is another day. As I said, life is too short and time with my boys is
most important - and every day is an opportunity to learn something...and just
be together.
—Guest Cathy
Stress
relief
I have 2 children with dyslexia. My younger son goes to
public school, and does fine even though I don't like all of the extras they
add rather than teaching the basics. My older son got to a point where he was
so stressed that I pulled him out in 8th grade to homeschool him. In addition
to the dyslexia, he has inattentive ADHD and was unable to concentrate in a
classroom. By homeshooling him, I can eliminate the things his brain will not
process, and concentrate on the things it will. Some subjects come easy to him,
but on others I have to push him and guide him through more closely. I also
have the freedom to stop schooling on days when he is struggling to focus and
do more when he is focusing well. My son is taking great strides, and learning
more than he ever could have in a classroom. He is happier and much less
stressed than he ever was while attending school. I was nervous about it at
first, but I have never regretted it once I saw how well he did.
—Guest Deb
Thank
God for Homeschooling
I just started homeschooling my son, when he was in the 8th
grade. I just wish I would have done this years ago when my older kids were
young. If I would have known that you as a parent have the right to homeschool
your kids I would have never sent my kids into this nasty school system. Why in
the world would any body send their child into the schools of today when you
legally do not have to? I was a teacher for head-start/pre-k children, and the
things they do and say at that young age is shocking. I have two kids in
college now, I'm homeschooling my son in 10th grade, and I am about to begin
homeschooling my 7yr old daughter for second grade. If you do everything
possible for your child while homeschooling them, they will turn out just fine.
HANDS UP FOR HOMESCHOOLING.
—Guest Erika Baker
Thinking
of Homeschooling too
I actually found a newsletter in the Doctors office touting
the benefits of homeschooling. One of the articles was about working and
homeschooling at the same time. The best thing is now a days you don't need to
be certified to homeschool with so many online options. Look for programs that
are free during normal school times! Use that local library and insist on up to
date info! Good Luck & I hope we do good as well!
—Guest MommaMe
He
was alone/ my kids needed me
My son was alone in school. He is dyslexic and feels
isolated at the same time. I have been his advocate for years and no one
listened. My next child has to sit with a teacher in order to do her work, but
it is because she feels so insecure. My baby is 5 and when she came home, she
never wanted to go back. I had no choice but to keep them all. They are happy
and excited that they are at home with me. I must admit I am more than excited
and beside myself that they are with me. I love them dearly. I still get
nervous thinking that their education rests on me, but with God's help, they
will make it.
—Memi73
homeschooled
I was one of five children who were homeschooled. I loved
it; I was able to learn at my own pace and enter college early. I am currently
in a master's program and working as a tutor and journalist. My mother was a
single parent and she fit her schedule around us. However, by the time we
reached the High School level we were able to work independently with guidance
from her. Getting grandparents involved is helpful as well. Try and see if the
job you have will allow you to work just mornings or afternoons and arrange
learning time when you're not working. Even if it's not as many hours as
regular school, I guarantee your child will learn more--I did.
—Guest gurlie
Why
we have decided to homeschool.
I have three kids, two girls ages 10 and 11 and a soon to be
6 yr old son. My oldest, who has always been an above average, honor-roll
student started middle school this year. From the first week, she was bullied,
pushed in the hallways, even punched and pushed down a flight of stairs! My
husband and I have had several conferences with the teachers and assist.
principle ( the principal has apparently been too busy for us) and while the
conferences helped somewhat the effects of the bullying are still evident. My
other two, who go to elem have had busing issues among other things and all
three of them come home with so much homework( even the 6 yr old!) that they
have no time to be kids. We began to realize that if we want our kids to be
taught the Christian values that our family holds dear, as well as get a
quality education without the distractions of bullies and outside issues, we
would be better served for me to teach them here at home. The kids and I can't
wait to begin this fall!
—Guest Lisa C
Why
I Chose To Homeschool
We started out by putting my son in preschool. Preschool was
actually awesome for us. Then came Kindergarten which was fairly good. By 1st
grade, it's been horrible. I've just started homeschooling and here it is March
but I pulled him out early because I felt we were getting NO WHERE. My child
has an IEP. He was labeled "developmentally delayed". Of course now
reading all the articles I am reading I realize that most likely it's because
he IS a boy and SOMETIMES boys brains mature a little slower. Or that just
because he doesn't LIKE to do tests and seatwork it doesn't make him a
"slow learner." Each child is different and that's why we're going to
homeschool. You can't take 1 teacher, 20+ students and expect them to learn the
exact same way with the exact results. It just doesn't happen. And they wanted
to hold my child back because he doesn't read 60wpm (in 1st grade!). He can
read, he's just not fast. Loving environment = success!
—Guest Ashley
